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A buried classic's welcome returnAdair took his own life in 1968, after years of struggle with academic culture's emphasis on writing books. His friends and colleagues gathered his best essays and published them in FAME AND THE FOUNDING FATHERS as a memorial to him.
The essays collected in this volume are dazzling explorations in the history of ideas and politics. In the now-classic "The Authorship of the Disputed FEDERALIST PAPERS", Adair not only solved a historical puzzle that had perplexed generations of Americans -- he provided a model of deft historical detective work. Similarly, his two essays on THE FEDERALIST No. 10 -- "The Tenth FEDERALIST Revisited" and "'That Politics May Be Reduced to a Science:' Hume, Madison, and the Tenth FEDERALIST" -- are indispensable to anyone who would understand the FEDERALIST or James Madison. Among the other important essays collected here are Adair's superb brief biography of Madison, his trio of essays exploring knotty puzzles in the life and career of Alexander Hamilton, and his still-controversial essay on Thomas Jefferson and Sally Hemings -- though this last essay has been exploded by the work of Annette Gordon-Reed in her pathbreaking THOMAS JEFFERSON AND SALLY HEMINGS: AN AMERICAN CONTROVERSY (University Press of Virginia, 1997).
In 1974, when this book first appeared, I had just completed my freshman year of college. I read it eagerly, and it opened my eyes to the value of writing about difficult historical issues in an elegant and accessible way. Anyone who is interested in American history between the 1770s and the 1830s must read this fine book. Anyone who cares about writing about history for a wide general audience will find this book to be a treasured model.
I owe Douglass Adair, who died when I was 12, a debt that I can never repay. I hope that others will read this book and contract similar debts.
-- Richard B. Bernstein, Adjunct Professor of Law, New York Law School


Charm, passion, integrityAn inspiring, invigorating book.


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Identity IssuesThe Episcopal Clergy Family study affirmed psychologist Friedman's view that clergy and their families function better when they focus more on how their struggles are similar to others. While it is true that the private lives of pastors, their spouses and their children are more directly connected to the pastor's work, it is dangerous to overemphasize this too much. When pastors and spouses do fall into this trap, they tend to abandon any responsibility for their own well being and expect the congregation or the conference, etc. to care for them. Walmsley and Lummis' research found those who adopted this view rated themselves as having poorer overall health. The negative impact of this is far greater for the spouse than for the pastor. However, those pastors and spouses who are highly effective at setting time and role boundaries in relationship with a church are by far the healthiest. In light of this, I found it strange that the author's aimed their concluding chapter on a course of action at judicatories and denominations.
One outstanding finding of Walmsley and Lummis' study is that "The stronger the self-concept, the healthier pastors are, even considering other important factors that affect their health" (72). It appears that neither a church's characteristics, salary level, denominational relationships nor a pastor's professional competence directly impact the overall health of pastors like their self-concept does.
Unfortunately many congregations reinforce the false belief that pastors are the most spiritual when they do not have their own self-concept. No pastor can offer spiritual leadership to a church when their
self-concept depends on approval from others. This leads pastors to adopt one or two attitudes. They either blame others for their own lack of self-control. Or they become perfectionists who believe their true value comes not from who they are in Christ, but from what they do. Either attitude leads to a victim mentality whenever something goes wrong in the church.
In addition, Anderson and Mylander in their book, Setting Your Church Free, make the claim that many pastors fail because of FINDING TOO MUCH OF THEIR IDENTITY AND SECURITY IN WHAT THEY DO AS PASTORS AND NOT ENOUGH IN WHO THEY ARE IN CHRIST (49). It is our life in Christ that gives pastors and spouses their identity and security for life and ministry. Anderson's book about the power of one's identity in Christ and the accompanying workbook will help pastors and their spouses greatly in this area. Those desiring to dig deeper into the application of the Family Systems Theory to the church will find the following books helpful: Friedman's Generation to Generation; Richardson's Creating a Healthier Church; and Steinke's Healthy Congregations and How Your Church Works. Jack Hayford's book, Pastor's of Promise, does not use Family Systems Theory jargon, but the concepts are there.
Overall, Walmsley and Lummis' book serves as a very well studied and practical application of the systems theory to the whole subject of church health via the health of pastors and their families. I highly
recommend this book to all seminarians, pastors, and their spouses.
I have fantasies of being a syndicated columnist like my heroes of the op-ed page, and so when I discover a book like this, with the collected works of someone who writes for a living and does it well, I am quick to buy it.
I am not a subscriber to the San Francisco Chronicle, and so this book is my first exposure to Adair Lara's work. I am delighted to make her acquaintance.
Lara's work offers a very intimate glimpse into one woman's life, as she writes about things that nearly everyone can relate to.
" 'Write about your life,' " she says she was told by a hard-of-hearing editor who didn't seem to sure about what to do with a female columnist, and that is what she did.
She tells us her first column, about getting a newspaper job, was personal. "The next thousand or so columns were also personal."
Reading this anthology is like leafing through a scrap book of memories. At times touching, humorous, and always intimate, I can highly recommend this collection on two levels - as an aspiring writer looking for examples of the craft done well, and as a woman whose everyday experiences, while small in scope, are validated by seeing another woman's personal life in print.